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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 4, 2017 18:11:29 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, I have never heard the word before until recent times. Today young women are just as promiscuous as men and I have heard the word used in the street and that is how it is used. That is why I asked man an tol the male equivalent to slut. I understand the modern term for a male is he is a player...in other eras the terms have been rake..cad Hi Mouse, These are old terms, so I know them. I just thought that there was a more modern term, for men who do their best to seduce a woman, then call her a slut when they succeed.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 4, 2017 18:40:51 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, I do know that the University graduate did say when we were dating, that my nearness was intoxicating, so who knows? Dresses and skirts were always below the knee , and my top area covered to the neck, so I was always suitably dressed. I've just remembered another incident. I was 50 years old and had just got off the bus carrying bags of groceries, I was almost home when this fellow about 30 came riding by me on his bike with his erect penis on show in broad daylight in a built up area. He deliberately drew my attention to himself, so I gave him a piece of my mind. I told him he was a sick fellow and ought to be ashamed of himself. theres a lot to be said for younger men..especially in ones 50s...trust me smiley 1 Hi Mouse, what does that mean? Am I supposed to be flattered? I'm certainly not looking around for a sexual encounter, not then, and certainly not now. That's the reason I am divorced, I lost all interest in sex.
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Post by mouse on Mar 5, 2017 4:42:57 GMT -5
I understand the modern term for a male is he is a player...in other eras the terms have been rake..cad Hi Mouse, These are old terms, so I know them. I just thought that there was a more modern term, for men who do their best to seduce a woman, then call her a slut when they succeed. the only term I know of is player
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Post by mouse on Mar 5, 2017 4:46:12 GMT -5
theres a lot to be said for younger men..especially in ones 50s...trust me smiley 1 Hi Mouse, what does that mean? Am I supposed to be flattered? I'm certainly not looking around for a sexual encounter, not then, and certainly not now. That's the reason I am divorced, I lost all interest in sex. it means what it says ..that theres a lot to be said for younger men ..especially when one is in ones 50s...just a happy reminisce on my part
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 6:11:48 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, These are old terms, so I know them. I just thought that there was a more modern term, for men who do their best to seduce a woman, then call her a slut when they succeed. the only term I know of is player Hi Mouse, then I guess that is the most modern one. It doesn't seem to have a scornfull connotation like slut has. It's just as I thought. It is only women who are looked down on when indulging in sexual activity.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 6:22:36 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, what does that mean? Am I supposed to be flattered? I'm certainly not looking around for a sexual encounter, not then, and certainly not now. That's the reason I am divorced, I lost all interest in sex. it means what it says ..that theres a lot to be said for younger men ..especially when one is in ones 50s...just a happy reminisce on my part Hi Mouse, so it is alright for men to go around doing that kind of thing? I prefer men who behave like gentlemen. They are the only ones I'm interested in.
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Post by mouse on Mar 5, 2017 7:03:24 GMT -5
it means what it says ..that theres a lot to be said for younger men ..especially when one is in ones 50s...just a happy reminisce on my part Hi Mouse, so it is alright for men to go around doing that kind of thing? I prefer men who behave like gentlemen. They are the only ones I'm interested in. who said it was only men who do that sort of thing..and even the most energetic of men can be gentle men just as the most energetic of women can be ladies... sex is an appitite built into us to sustain the species just as the need food and water is to sustain life ....all life forms need food and water and all life form need to reproduce ..pollination ..production of seeds ..birth or flowering ..a time to live a time to flower and a time to die
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Post by mouse on Mar 5, 2017 7:06:14 GMT -5
the only term I know of is player Hi Mouse, then I guess that is the most modern one. It doesn't seem to have a scornfull connotation like slut has. It's just as I thought. It is only women who are looked down on when indulging in sexual activity. that's because we live and have lived in a male dominated society and women indulging in sexual activity are to a great extent not looked down on so much these days ...and the word slut goes beyond sexual activity
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Post by fretslider on Mar 5, 2017 7:38:46 GMT -5
To recap.... I think that's where a lot of men go wrong in their thinking. They seem to think that women secretly want to be raped and that the rapist is actually doing the woman a favour.
It came from men talk. I was given that information.
I don't hang around with people who think and talk crudely.But you do hang around with men who think rape is a social good. Hi Fretslider, the group of men were strangers. The friend who overheard these men talking was a woman and she told me what they had said. I wasn't in the bar. Do I have to spell it out for you. It seems that what I am imparting in coversation is going right over your head. Whew.!!! Hearsay isn't exactly evidence of anything, is it.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 8:48:22 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, so it is alright for men to go around doing that kind of thing? I prefer men who behave like gentlemen. They are the only ones I'm interested in. who said it was only men who do that sort of thing..and even the most energetic of men can be gentle men just as the most energetic of women can be ladies... sex is an appitite built into us to sustain the species just as the need food and water is to sustain life ....all life forms need food and water and all life form need to reproduce ..pollination ..production of seeds ..birth or flowering ..a time to live a time to flower and a time to die Hi Mouse, A normal person whether man or woman don't harass people in broad daylight by exposing their sexual organs. It's absolutely crazy. If a cop had seen him he would have been charged with indecent exposure.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 8:54:30 GMT -5
Hi Fretslider, the group of men were strangers. The friend who overheard these men talking was a woman and she told me what they had said. I wasn't in the bar. Do I have to spell it out for you. It seems that what I am imparting in coversation is going right over your head. Whew.!!! Hearsay isn't exactly evidence of anything, is it. Hi Fretslider, we are not in Court speaking from the witness box, loosen up.!!!
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 8:59:08 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, then I guess that is the most modern one. It doesn't seem to have a scornfull connotation like slut has. It's just as I thought. It is only women who are looked down on when indulging in sexual activity. that's because we live and have lived in a male dominated society and women indulging in sexual activity are to a great extent not looked down on so much these days ...and the word slut goes beyond sexual activity Hi Mouse, From what I have overheard in the street that is still how it is used.
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Post by mouse on Mar 5, 2017 11:22:55 GMT -5
who said it was only men who do that sort of thing..and even the most energetic of men can be gentle men just as the most energetic of women can be ladies... sex is an appitite built into us to sustain the species just as the need food and water is to sustain life ....all life forms need food and water and all life form need to reproduce ..pollination ..production of seeds ..birth or flowering ..a time to live a time to flower and a time to die Hi Mouse, A normal person whether man or woman don't harass people in broad daylight by exposing their sexual organs. It's absolutely crazy. If a cop had seen him he would have been charged with indecent exposure. what are you talking about..sexual appitite is not about harassing people in the street or exposing themselves and those with an energetic sexual are not necessarily pervs.. enjoying sex is not perv induced...neither is having sexual partners .... .you do dwell on the seamy side ..no wonder you have some rather strange ideas
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2017 12:21:18 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, then I guess that is the most modern one. It doesn't seem to have a scornfull connotation like slut has. It's just as I thought. It is only women who are looked down on when indulging in sexual activity. that's because we live and have lived in a male dominated society and women indulging in sexual activity are to a great extent not looked down on so much these days ...and the word slut goes beyond sexual activity The only time I have heard the word slut used was in reference to the sexual activity of an unmarried (usually) female who has many casual sexual encounters.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Mar 5, 2017 17:44:49 GMT -5
Hi Mouse, so it is alright for men to go around doing that kind of thing? I prefer men who behave like gentlemen. They are the only ones I'm interested in. who said it was only men who do that sort of thing..and even the most energetic of men can be gentle men just as the most energetic of women can be ladies... sex is an appitite built into us to sustain the species just as the need food and water is to sustain life ....all life forms need food and water and all life form need to reproduce ..pollination ..production of seeds ..birth or flowering ..a time to live a time to flower and a time to die Hi Mouse, I know all about the birds and the bees, but I always thought that you didn't indulge yourself as they do, so it is a different kettle of fish. Sex is for marriage with responsibility part of the arrangement. I don't go looking for trouble. As a child, I was obedient to my parents, as even then, I had the intelligence to know that my parents knew more about life than I did, and because they loved me, were always going to steer me in the right direction with their sound advice, which I followed.!!!
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