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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 2, 2016 19:33:39 GMT -5
Hi Beth, the person who practised this would have had to have a child first and maybe it gave them the idea. My husband was turned on by watching me breast feed, though we never got involved in what has been discussed TMI!!! Why the need to share intimate information...this is not a tv reality show Hi Chefmate 51, these things are normal, all married people are engaged in living life so we know what takes place. If you can't enjoy each other's body it would be a poor show indeed. I wasn't into any kinky stuff. I'm sure every husband enjoys watching their child being breastfed., that is very normal, I'm sure.!!!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2016 20:18:22 GMT -5
TMI!!! Why the need to share intimate information...this is not a tv reality show Hi Chefmate 51, these things are normal, all married people are engaged in living life so we know what takes place. If you can't enjoy each other's body it would be a poor show indeed. I wasn't into any kinky stuff. I'm sure every husband enjoys watching their child being breastfed., that is very normal, I'm sure.!!! but why the need to share with the rest of us? I have been married so a primer from you isn't necessary....I just fail to understand why you are driven to share intimate moments to strangers. You stated your husband was turned on by you breastfeeding....tmi
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2016 20:21:15 GMT -5
I guess an article puts it out there and for me, it's to much information. I guess it reminds me of those adults who love to role play being a baby again...dirty diapers and all. There is something not quite right with that but don't broadcast it and people will leave you alone. You mean like that Republican Senator, David Vitter, that got in all that trouble? I don't think this is the same thing. Consenting adults? None of my business. I agree it's none of our business but for some twisted reason, people put their kinky stuff out there so we find it in our face. Fifty years ago we didn't have this garbage promoted....we were better off.
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Post by Sysop3 on Sept 2, 2016 20:24:53 GMT -5
Hi Chefmate 51, these things are normal, all married people are engaged in living life so we know what takes place. If you can't enjoy each other's body it would be a poor show indeed. I wasn't into any kinky stuff. I'm sure every husband enjoys watching their child being breastfed., that is very normal, I'm sure.!!! but why the need to share with the rest of us? I have been married so a primer from you isn't necessary....I just fail to understand why you are driven to share intimate moments to strangers. You stated your husband was turned on by you breastfeeding....tmi You can fix that, Chef. If you're offended, move on to another thread. You obviously don't approve of this one so whydo you keep coming back? Just curious.
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Post by Sysop3 on Sept 2, 2016 20:38:24 GMT -5
if that comes about because of open-mindedness, then the only solution to that would be to have a closed-mind? neither open mind nor closed mind...and as cheffy pointed out quite rightly..WHY are these people bringing it out into the public domain.. ?I sujest its because they wish to have their views validated....accepted having an open mind is when we know about such things but we don't have to comitt either for or against but once in the public arena then a stance has to be taken Mouse, I think you're getting all swept up in thinking somebody or other has an "agenda" , blah blah blah. I don't think that has anything to do with the subject at hand. This thread was not started anticipating anger. Did you read the whole article? I edited one of your posts that was too far over the top and actually offended me. I did email Beth first and read it to her. She said just moderate it to take that lined out part out and leave the rest, so that's what I did. That was the only thing I've seen here that was down and dirty.
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Post by Sysop3 on Sept 2, 2016 20:39:48 GMT -5
You mean like that Republican Senator, David Vittor, that got in all that trouble? I don't think this is the same thing. Consenting adults? None of my business. I agree it's none of our business but for some twisted reason, people put their kinky stuff out there so we find it in our face. Fifty years ago we didn't have this garbage promoted....we were better off. It's your choice, obviously.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 2, 2016 21:23:01 GMT -5
Hi Chefmate 51, these things are normal, all married people are engaged in living life so we know what takes place. If you can't enjoy each other's body it would be a poor show indeed. I wasn't into any kinky stuff. I'm sure every husband enjoys watching their child being breastfed., that is very normal, I'm sure.!!! but why the need to share with the rest of us? I have been married so a primer from you isn't necessary....I just fail to understand why you are driven to share intimate moments to strangers. You stated your husband was turned on by you breastfeeding....tmi Hi Chefmate, it was just an aside, it wasn't meant to titilate. It just happened to pop into my mind at the moment of typing the post. It could be a normal occurrence for all I know. Men are men and women are women. I certainly wasn't feeling sexy at that moment in time, but I was enjoying that closeness with my child, there is nothing to beat it.!!!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2016 21:31:33 GMT -5
but why the need to share with the rest of us? I have been married so a primer from you isn't necessary....I just fail to understand why you are driven to share intimate moments to strangers. You stated your husband was turned on by you breastfeeding....tmi You can fix that, Chef. If you're offended, move on to another thread. You obviously don't approve of this one so whydo you keep coming back? Just curious. I'm sitting in a coffeeshop having a conversation to find out why are certain remark was made by my tablemate...I'm not as much offended as curious as to why it was said. There is a generation gap and it's interesting to me to see what someone was thinking is all...this is not the conversations we had thirty plus years ago. You're making judgements about me...I think it was tmi but trying to see what Lassie was thinking....am I not allowed to ask questions? If I were to be offended by most things going on in our culture, I would have to sit inside with no contact with the outside world. Remember, I grew up in a different time and have watched the moral decay in the USA and even participated for a time in that decay...I see things with a different perspective from not only age but Christian beliefs.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 2, 2016 21:46:47 GMT -5
You can fix that, Chef. If you're offended, move on to another thread. You obviously don't approve of this one so whydo you keep coming back? Just curious. I'm sitting in a coffeeshop having a conversation to find out why are certain remark was made by my tablemate...I'm not as much offended as curious as to why it was said. There is a generation gap and it's interesting to me to see what someone was thinking is all...this is not the conversations we had thirty plus years ago. You are right Chefmate 51, I didn't learn the facts of life until I was married.Your parents are supposed to instruct you,but my Mother,even when my married sister tried to give me a few pointers, wouldn't allow her to give me any infornation whatsoever. And I was a teenager, old enough to know. Today's generation know the facts of life whilst still at school if not by experience. Life changes that is for sure.!!!
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Post by beth on Sept 2, 2016 22:04:56 GMT -5
You can fix that, Chef. If you're offended, move on to another thread. You obviously don't approve of this one so whydo you keep coming back? Just curious. I'm sitting in a coffeeshop having a conversation to find out why are certain remark was made by my tablemate...I'm not as much offended as curious as to why it was said. There is a generation gap and it's interesting to me to see what someone was thinking is all...this is not the conversations we had thirty plus years ago. You're making judgements about me...I think it was tmi but trying to see what Lassie was thinking....am I not allowed to ask questions? If I were to be offended by most things going on in our culture, I would have to sit inside with no contact with the outside world. Remember, I grew up in a different time and have watched the moral decay in the USA and even participated for a time in that decay...I see things with a different perspective from not only age but Christian beliefs. I honestly don't see how Christian beliefs have anything to do with this thread ... moral decay, either. Do you really think Christians are different from all other people in how they express love and affection? The only Christians who (supposedly) practice chastity are the clergy in the RCC ... IOW, nuns and priests and certain other hierarchy of the church.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2016 22:54:14 GMT -5
I've seen "tmi" a few times in this thread. What does it mean?
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Post by beth on Sept 2, 2016 23:10:37 GMT -5
Too much information
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 3, 2016 0:42:40 GMT -5
Too much information Hi Beth, who brought up the subject? I certainly have learned so much about human relationships on these forums, that I never even knew existed, would you say that is too much information?most of which has been lustful in my estimation. I guess that is why you have to be a certain age before you can access the Internet. The reason being, no doubt, you never know what will be discussed. I'm not in to anything that is rude or crude, but just what is considered normal behaviour. I think you must have missed all the rude and crude stuff that has been bandied about on the forums. That must have been before we affiliated.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 3, 2016 1:13:22 GMT -5
Hi Chefmate51, it seems everything is in your face nowadays. I guess that is what freedom of speech is all about. Everyone seems to want it so badly. That is why there is so much killing going on, because some cartoonist decided he was going to lampoon someone's Prophet. There is apparently a price to pay for speaking out, so is freedom of speech really what we want BTW marriage wouldn't work if men were not turned on by a woman's body, that is God given.
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Post by Scottish Lassie on Sept 3, 2016 1:38:55 GMT -5
Hi Beth, I didn't see Shades question, so thought you were telling me that I had given out too much. I look upon all people as friends, not strangers.!!! Jesus said "love your neighbour as yoursef" that to me is an even closer relationsip than being a friend, though that is pretty close too. Out here in Australia people that you have never even met, will talk to you as if they had known you all their lives and will impart all kinds of intimate details. In Scotland people were aloof and kept to themselves, so I guess I have changed since coming out to this country. For which I am thankful.!!!
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